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Bibis
Needing Help
BJ
Children's Care Trust has many bibis and their grandchildren
in need of sponsorship. The following are especially in
need of help. Donations may also be made to the general
bibi fund, and the grandmothers themselves wil decide how
the money will be used.
The following grandmothers in Tanzania, East Africa have
lost their own grown children to AIDS and now must raise
their grandchildren. The Bibi Jann Children's Care Trust
invites sponsors to "adopt" a grandmother (bibi).
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Juma
Hassani, 38, Mbagala
Divorced
Number of Children:2
1. m Hassan, 15
2. m Shaban, 12
A
prawn-diving accident in 1996 caused a long
hospitalization and paralyzed Juma's legs; his
wife left him and their two sons. Unable to
dive, he took up basket weaving and building
model boats to support the family. In 2004,
he pulled himself through the
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village to the BJ school to learn to read and write,
and later joined the bibi program.
4/06 We bought him a hand-pedaled bike, which Juma
uses to travel some 25 miles on weekends to sell his
boats.
Read
article.
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Fatuma
Rashidi, 60, Kurusini
Married
Number
of Grandchildren:1
1. Zaina Ally, 12
Number
of Children: six, daughter, 26 died of AIDS
in 2004 (her husband, too).
Fatuma
lives in one room with her unemployed husband
and grand-
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daughter. Both adults find occasional manual labor
(such as sorting grains) at the "go down"
(place where people assemble in hope of being picked
up for day work). Days they don't find work, they
don't eat. Her remaining 5 children are also unemployed
and depend on her, along with their combined six children.
Zaini is a chubby, serious girl who likes math, drawing
and playing ball. Following the "Aim high"
motto on the logo of her school shirt, Zaina hopes
to become a doctor or nurse. She seems very sad. Their
home is one room, with a window, double bed, couch,
coffee table, chest, and a battery-operated clock.
They cook outdoors. Fatuma "prays to God to get
whatever help God blesses me with."
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Salma
Mnogwe, 50, Kurusini
Married
Number of Grandchildren:9
1. Suedi Haruna, 12
2. Amiri Said, 12
3. Hamad Haruna, 9
4. Salma Abdallah, 9
5. Kalindo Said, 9
6. Hamis Said, 8
7. Sada Hamis, 6
8. Ibrahim Abdallah, 6
9. Asia Abdallah, 4
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Number
of Children: nine, 4 daughters died of AIDS along with husbands
at ages 23, 26, 28, 32.
Salma
lives with her husband (retired from the government) and
the 9 grandchildren in 3 rented rooms. She sometimes sells
cassava (a root staple) and chipati (Indian bread) for money.
She describes her grandchildren (through translator): "
Some make mischief. Some like school, some don't - they
hate it. I think rather stay home because children laugh
- they don't have shoes, good uniforms."
Every
6 to 12 months she must find $300 for school clothes and
fees; it costs $150 monthly for food and basic needs. Salma
has developed hypertension and ulcers with worrying; just
feeding the grandchildren is her greatest problem, then
school. They try for two meals daily or rice and/or ugali
(corn mush). The large living room with chipped and dirty
turqouise paint has a couch, 2 chairs, chest, fridge and
electric clock, and a piece of linoleum on the floor with
sleeping mats rolled in corners. The children seem to get
along well and sibling groups are evident; the 4-yr.-old
looks more like 18 months.
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Amina
Abdala, 58, Mbagala
No husband
Number of Grandchildren:1
1. Naima, 5
Number of Children: sven, 1 daughter and husband
both died in 2000 when Naima was only 8 days
old.
Found
by: Fatuma Gwao
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Amina
owns her her 5-room house, where 8 people live only
half the wooden furniture has cushions. No one is
employed. Naima is a quiet girl who sis cautiously
next to this "mzungo" (white), comparing
skin tones. She knows other neighborhood children
go to BJ school and wants to go, too. She likes dolls.
Fatuma invited her to begin the next day, even without
a sponsor. Amina says through a translator: "I
give thanks for someone send her to school; school
is good. I be happy have a friend."
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Tabu
Makota, 45, Mbagala
Husband Hamisi Makota, 46
Number
of Grandchildren:3
1. f Sage, 15, form 3 (boarding at high school)
2. f Habiba, 13, form 2
3. m Rajabu, 6
Number
of Children: four, son died in 2004, his wife
in 2003.
The
grandparents own their 6-room house and run
an open-air "Sygone
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Pub" in their yard. There is little left for
school fees ($250 yearly x 2). Their large living
room serves as a storage room, with some furniture,
crates of empty bottles, stack of plastic chairs,
fridge which doesn't seem to work and whirling ceiling
fan.
Sage
hopes to become a journalist, while Habiba wants to
be a doctor. Their little brother would like to go
to BJ school as his friends do. Bibi Tabu wears someone's
cast-off University of Hawaii t-shirt. She is happy
her husband works, but they can't manage all the school
fees.
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Interviewed
10/05 by Jann Mitchell, photographed by Christie Hazen)
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Ally
Saidi, mid-50s (unsure), Mbagala
(replaced her sister Sofia Saidi late 07)
No husband
Number
of Grandchildren:2
1. Hamisi, 16, form 2 (high school)
2. Mohamed, 13 (looks more like 10), 4th grade
Number of Children: two daughters who
died at ages 12 and 14.
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Salma
is actually her two charges' aunt, taking over in
late 06 for her older, nearly-blind sister, Sofia.
Sofia lost both her daughters to AIDS at ages 20 and
30 in 1994 and 1998. She returned to her village,
bought a cassava farm with the help of a sponsor,
and sends money to her sister for the two boys' care.
That was a huge step forward for the family, which
formerly depended on handouts.
Salma
is happy to be "mothering" again, and sells
food near the local school. She makes mats and food
covers in the bibi group and enjoys the friends she's
made there. Salma and the boys live in one rented
room. A formerly unmotivated student, Mohamed now
happily attends and plans to become a taxi driver.
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Mkulu
Mfaume, 82, Mbagala-Charambe
Widowed
Number
of Grandchildren: 2
1. m Mikidadi Ally, 15 grade 5
2. f Husna Selemani, 8 grade 2
Number of Children: two daughters. Mwanache
Musa died of AIDS at 30 in 1998, Amina, 42,
is married to Mohamed with five children 6-22
at home.
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Mkulu
isn't capable of caring for the children alone, so
lives with her daughter and family (daughter Amina
attends bibi group in her stead). As son-in-law Mohamed
Likolo, 42, says in English, "She weak in legs,
her hands can't catch anything. Every day like you
see, stay like that, lose the memory."
The
household of five rooms includes 12 people, with Mohamed's
old parents, too. Bibi Mwana was already living with
her daughter and son-in-law, when Mwanache died. The
couple took the two orphans in, too. The family's
large living room is ringed with chairs and two wooden
sofas shoved against the walls, which are decorated
with two calendars and woven items gaily painted by
Amina. Admire them and she disappears into a curtained-off
bedroom and returns with a woven fan and food cover
as gifts.
Mohamed
is a driver, renting others' cabs and dreaming of
one day buying his own. In the meantime, he struggles
to send seven children to school. He obtains government
loans, repaying them "slowly, slowly, slowly."
Bibi Mwana sits nodding.
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Hatarini
Isaka, 58, Mbagala
Husband dead of AIDS
Number
of Grandchildren:6
1. f Tatu Ahmad, 13, finished 7th grade, can't
afford more
2. m Zuberi, 10, grade 5
3. m Heri, 7, grade 2
4. f Lela, 5
5. f Mwajuma, 5
6. f Rehema, 1½
Number of Children:two, One daughter died at
35 in 2001, the other is missing.
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Bibi Hatarini's large, rented room sits in a thief-pocked,
poor suburb of Dar. Two windows - protected by cyclone
wire fencing and wooden shutters admit a little light;
magazine pictures of celebrities and sports stars
brighten a wall. Four double beds fill the room, along
with a rainbow of plastic buckets - orange, red, green,
yellow - hold the family's store of clothes, water
and food.
Welcome
to the home of a future president of Tanzania.
Zuberi
at 10 is Hatarini's oldest grandson. Four are orphaned,
while the mother of the other two have simply vanished
- probably into prostitution and/or drug addiction.While
other children in the village aspire to become cab
drivers but will probably wind up as something far
less honorable, this straight, proud boy announces
in English, "I will be president. I will send
all people to school." His face is determined
above the ragged blue polo shirt celebrating the Minnesota
Twins.
Each
morning, Bibi Hatarini sells cassava - a root staple
- to bring money for her large family. She is a comfy,
mother-hug of a woman with an orange and black bandana
covering her hair. Lovely in white and lavender kangas
wrapped about her waist and draped over her head,
Tatu has finished 7th grade. The girl longs for more
education, but there is no money for school fees and
uniform. She especially likes math, and would like
to become a secretary. In spring 2006, she gave birth
prematurely after a difficult pregnancy; the baby
lived only a couple hours.
This
grandmother says of a potential sponsor: "Thank
you for her or him. I want money to save my grandchildren
because I don't have any income. Thank you for coming
here."
3/07
Family moved into the BJ house after becoming homeless.
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Mwanahawa
Hawa Mohamed, Mbagala
Divorced
Number
of Grandchildren:6
1. f Zainabu Kasimu, 12
2. m Mohamedi Kasimu, 10
3. m Nuni Adinai
4. f Safania Nyangwichi, 6
5. m Abdu Kassimu, 5
6. f Mwanisha Kasimu 2
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Number
of Children: three dead of AIDS 1998, 2000, 2005
Hawa
lives in one small room. She works as housekeeper
to nearby traditional dr., who is also her landlord.
She was suffering from malaria when I visited, yet
forced herself to go to work. She is a member of the
Bibi Jann Womens Group, cooking and making crafts.
Eric and Jann send Abdu and Safinia to BJ preschool
since 2003, buy medicine and give them money occasionally.
Life is hard for her, and she seems depressed. The
oldest girl appears retarded.
4/05 We bought her a sewing machine to start a business.
Landlord has promised larger quarters. Abdus
scabied left hand was treated and seemed better.
1/06 This bibi and grandchildren moved into their
own 4-room home built by a sponsor who who asked all
her friends to help! They raised over $3000!
2/07 Third room newly finished, herd of ducks for
sale to restaurants occupy 4th (unfinished) room.
3/07 Zainabu marries and moves out
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Miramu
Ally Salumu, 44, Mbagala
Husband died of AIDS
Number
of Grandchildren:3
1. m Hatibu Yahya, 7, grade 1
2. m Juma Saidi, 10, grade 1
3. m Omar Issa, 12, doesn't go to school
Number of Children: five, One daughter (Hatibu's
mother) died at 19 in 2000, one son (Juma and
Omar's father) died at 25 with his wife (she
doesn't recall the year).
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not available at the moment
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"My
name is
," say the three little boys politely
in English as they shake hands. The clothes they wear
are their only possessions. They are obviously hungry.
With their grandmother Miramu, they've ridden a dilapidated
jitney and walked several miles to wait all day in
the hopes an interview will secure someone to help.
Bibi Miramu wears a black scarf over her head. It
matches her skirt, topped by a bright pink blouse.
She isn't working because she is often ill. She and
the boys rent one room, and she can't afford to school
the oldest grandson, or to buy shoes and school uniforms.
Through
a translator, she matter-of-factly states her case:
"I need school fees. I am sick with AIDS and
need medicine. I need food and clothes for the children.
That is the only clothes they have. When I die, there
is no one to help. I go to my brother for money for
food. He said, 'I don't want to see you because you
have AIDS. If you come here I will kill you.'"
The
three little boys' faces brighten only when they are
invited to eat.
The family moved into the BJ
House, March 2007, after becoming homeless.
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DORIS
SHAWA, 65, Kinondoni
Husband died 1990
Number
of Grandchildren:4
1. f Doris John, 30/08/91, Form One
2. f Rosemary John, 03/08/94, Standard Five
3. f Happy Ladislaus, 26/01/93, Form One
4. f Witness Ladislaus, 1996, Standard Four
Number of Children: Of five children, sons
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died
at 34 and 41, one daughter at 18. Two sons, 18 and
40, live together and help their mother.
Bibi
Doris is a determined woman with a bottom front tooth
missing. She makes mats for sale, and savors the prospect
of doing that with other grandmothers in the group.
She also hopes to raise chickens. She owns her own
house, where the livingroom is furnished with two
couches, four chairs, a table and refrigerator. A
fruit motif hanging, FEEL AT HOME, welcomes visitors.
She
manages to keep the children in school through loans,
obtained using her home as collateral. "But I
don't have anything for food, school fees or clothes
for the children," she worries. The oldest granddaughter,
Doris, says, "I like to study hard and want to
become a doctor." Her bibi says, "Tell my
friends I need money for business to save life of
the kids." Gratefully, she grabs at a proffered$10
bill with repeated thanks.
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SALAMA
MOHAMED, 48, Mwananyamala
Widowed
Number of Grandchildren:4
1. m Asumani, 3
2. m Ramadhani Jafari, 11, 4th grade
3. m Azizi Hamisi, 7, 1st grade
4. m Mansuri Hamisi, 3rd grade
Number of Children: Six, one son dead at 3;
some live nearby and help her a little.
Bibi
Salama cooks chipati for the corner restaurant
and also peddles them in the village. Eager
in a bright red blouse, she is prepared to travel
some distance to work
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Saturdays
making crafts with the other bibis. Their two rooms
are mostly bare, with just two beds, two chairs, a
TV and jugs of water. She assumed care of the three
older children after her elderly roommate, Asia, died
9/06.
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MWASHABANI
MOHAMEDI, 53, Mbagala
Married
Number of Grandchildren:4
1. m Saidi Maneno, 17, Form One (wants be a
teacher)
2. m Salumu Maneno, 14, 7th grade (driver)
3. Nasra Maneno, 10, (unsure)
4. m Juma, 14, 6th grade (driver)
Number of Children: Nine, but two daughters
dead at 3 yrs and 31 yrs.
With
her shy, sweet smile, Bibi Mwashabani is eager
as she fans off flies with one of the round
table mats she weaves. She wears a yellow print
dress with a yellow and black kanga, and sells
fried cassawa
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at
a primary school. "I want a friend to know all
my problems: food, school fees, clothes and shoes.
I don't have anything!" She and the four grandchildren
live in one rented room with two beds. All the children
do well in school.
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FATUMA
MWHISHEE, 60
(unsure), Mbagala
Widowed
Number of Grandchildren:
1
1. m Issa Hamisi, 6
Number of Children:Six, with two dead of AIDS
at 14 and 30.
Beneath
the purple, green and pick kanga draping her
head, Bibi Fatuma has a lovely wide smile over
very buck teeth. We sit on two wooden stools
in the tiny hallway of her tiny, two-room home,
which she owns and shares with a daughter. Stacks
of brightly buckets provide the only color in
the grim scene of gray cement. Two beds with
tattered foam mattresses are the only furniture;
mosquito nets above are tied neatly in place.
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Fatuma
makes and sells sambosas and vimbua (a sort of filled
dumpling) for sale in the village. She cooks bending
over a jiku, a tiny, three-legged charcoal stove outside
the doorway. A 4-year-old visiting granddaughter watches,
her ragged dress's pattern nearly invisible with washing.
"You see me - I don't have anything!" Fatuma
says simply. Even before official enrollment, she
has been coming to the bibi group and weaving mats
to sell while she awaits a sponsor who might help.
She worries about little Issa, whose ear has been
running for two years and seems to have damaged his
hearing.
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MWANAIDI
ALLY, 39, Msasani
No husband
Number
of Grandchildren:2
1. f Rahma Abdala, 13, Form One
2.m. Twalib Abdala, 7, Grade 2
Number of Children: One daughter, Zainabu, dead
of AIDS at 22 in 2003
Bibi
Mwanaidi never went to school, but is proud
that her grandchildren like school so much.
Rahma likes to draw and dreams of becoming a
doctor. Little Twalik likes to play football.
Her classic profile and perfect teeth are complemented
by her tan and brown kanga set (skirt and head
drape) with spring green and fall brown leaves.
She sometimes sells food and chipati (local
bread) to send her
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grandchildren
to school.
Like
the other bibis, money is scarce for food, school
fees and children's clothes. But she's been coming
to the school every Saturday to make table mats and
is learning to create batiks.
"I feel happy because the group change my ideas
from other bibis. Now I know how to make batik - before
I didn't know," Mwanaidi says through a translator.
She is the youngest grandmother in our program; her
daughter gave birth at 15.
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RUKIA
ABDALA, 45, Mbagala
Husband dead
Number
of Grandchildren: 1
1. m Bilal Hamisi, 1
Number of Children: five, a son died of AIDS
at 6, a daughter at 24; one son mentally ill.
Baby
Bilal is tied in a brown and tan kanga to Bibi
Rukia's chest and sleeps soundly as she talks.
She shares the two-room home she owns with her
ill son, and her boy who finished 7th grade
last year but can't continue because she hasn't
the school fees. N one is working.
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"Tell
my friend I have problems: a young child who needs
care. I don't have relatives to save me. I need money
to start a business like cooking." She enjoys
coming to the bibi group and weaving mats. She's willing
to work and reasons that she "can learn more
in group."
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MWAJUMA
MOHAMED NJOPEKA, 65, Temeke
Husband dead
Number of Grandchildren: 1
1.F Suwazuri, 14, 7th grade
Number of Children: six children, 4 have died of AIDS.
Bibi Mwajuma is colourful in a red, white and black
kanga over her head. She and her granddaughter live
in two rooms rented from the government. She has bad
knees and it's hard for her to walk, and thus does
not work. She gets some help from her two remaining
children, and her granddaughter likes school. This
bibi likes weaving mats at the Saturday bibi meetings.
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AMINA
JUMA, 48, Temeke
Married, neither working
Number of Grandchildren: 4
1. F Fatuma Mbaraka, b.1990, 8th grade
2. M Salche Mbaraka, b. 1996, 5th grade.
3. F Jamila Ally, ?, 6th grade
4. F Fatuma Anu, 6, 1st grade
Number of Children: eight, but 3 have died.
Bibi
Amina, her husband and the grand-children are living
with relatives. She wears a tan and brown kanga, and
crochets an olive green doily and she talks. She enjoys
working during the bibi meetings, turning out the
doilies so prevalent here on sofa and chair backs
in homes which have furniture.
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RAHMA
KIHEDU, 43, Kizinga
Husband, who works in a small shop
Number of Grandchildren: 3
1, F Juliana Aseli, 12, 5th grade
2, M Sefu Aseli, 6
3. F Nasra Aseli, 10, 4th grade
Number of Children: four, but 2 have died.
Bibi
Rahma runs a business renting out kangas, the colourful
skirt-and-shawl combinations which cost only $3 to
buy new - so her customers are poor indeed. She enjoys
helping the other bibis make batiks, and proudly says
she do any work asked of her.
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HADIJA
SELEMANI, 55, Mbagala
Divorced
Number of Grandchildren: 5
1. F Hadija Abdala, 14, 7th grade.
2. F Sina Abdala, 13, 7th grade
3. M Hasani Abdala, 11, 4th grade
4. M Bakari Abdala, 6
5. F Tatu Rashidi, 12, 4th grade
Number of Children: six, but 4 have died.
When
I ask about her children, Bibi Hadija breaks down
into tears. I hold her, and soon I'm crying too. Not
only is she deep
in grief, but she and the grandchildren have no place
to live. She's trying to keep the kids in school,
but needs school fees and uniforms. She enjoys making
batiks with the other bibis.
Moved
into BJ House March 2007.
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ZUHURA
BALOZI, 50, Mbagala Kiburugwa
Husband dead
Number of Grandchildren: 1
1. M Juma Bubaga, 18, Form 2
Number of Children: five, but 2 are dead.
Bibi Zuhuru is a teacher, but money is tight.
Grandson Juma is a tall, intelligent boy who
speaks English well and has accompanied his
grandmother to state his case. He longs to become
a pilot -
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although
he's "not yet" been in a plane. He's to
take the national exam in October, but hasn't yet
paid his school fees of $450 per year (half due in
Jan., the rest in July). His bibi weaves mats with
the bibi group.
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ANNA
BRASI, age unknown, Mbagala
Husband dead
Number of Grandchildren: 2
1. M Betto William, 16, 7th grade.
2. F Anna Mustafa, 8, 1st grade
Number of Children: five, with 2 dead.
Bibi
Anna stands out among the others bibis because
of her Makonde tribal facial tattoos - like
inked rick-rack - and a small hole below her
nostrils where a wooden plug is traditionally
wore for beauty. She
is not working, but sometimes cuts wood
in the forest to sell. She has talked to the
children's teachers and got help for the school
uniforms, but everything else is hard to come
by. The family was living in
a donated room, but when that room was
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needed,
they were thrown out and now sleep "anyway, everywhere
- even in a bar!" she says through a translator.
She likes making batiks in the group.¨
Moved
into BJ House March 2007.
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AZIZA
SALUMU, 56, Mbagala
Long divorced
# Grandchildren: 1
1. F Kuruthumu Salumu, 14, 5th grade
Priority level: *
# Children: 12, but 10 dead of AIDS
Bibi
Aziza owns her own 2-room house and sells fish at
the ferry landing - good business if she can get the
capital to buy fish to sell. She knows how to weave
and is confident she can work well with the other
bibis.
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